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Life Insurance After Divorce: Protecting Your Kids

By Brent De Paris ·
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Divorce changes almost everything, including your life insurance. If you have children, getting this right is one of the most important things you can do once the dust settles.

1. Update your beneficiaries

If your ex-spouse is still listed as your beneficiary, the money could go to them, not your kids. Florida law can automatically revoke an ex-spouse's beneficiary designation in some situations after divorce, but there are exceptions, and you shouldn't rely on it. Update your designation directly with the carrier.

2. Don't name minor kids directly

Insurers generally won't pay a large benefit straight to a child under 18. Consider a trust or a custodian under the Uniform Transfers to Minors Act so someone you choose manages the money.

3. Check your divorce decree

Courts sometimes require a parent to keep life insurance to secure child support or alimony. If your decree requires coverage, keep it in force and follow the terms exactly, including who must be the beneficiary.

4. Think about your own needs

You may now be the main or only provider in your home. Your coverage amount may need to go up.

5. Coverage on the other parent

If your kids depend on child support from your ex, the loss of that support would hurt. In some cases, a parent can own a policy on the other parent with their consent. An advisor and your attorney can tell you what's possible.

Quick checklist

  • Update beneficiaries on every policy, including work coverage
  • Review your will and guardian choice
  • Confirm any insurance your decree requires

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Frequently asked questions

Do I need to change my life insurance beneficiary after divorce?+
Yes. Even though Florida law may revoke an ex-spouse designation in some cases, there are exceptions. Update it directly with your carrier.
Can a court require life insurance after divorce?+
Yes. Courts sometimes require a parent to keep life insurance to secure child support or alimony.
Can I own a life insurance policy on my ex-spouse?+
In some cases, with their consent and an insurable interest, such as relying on their child support. Ask an advisor and your attorney.
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Brent De Paris

Licensed Insurance Agent (License 215). President of Moving Mountains Advisors, a boutique independent agency serving Florida and beyond.

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This article is educational and not an offer of coverage, tax or legal advice, or a guarantee of approval or rates. Coverage, riders and pricing vary by carrier, state and your health. Talk to a licensed advisor about your situation.

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